Feeling Drained Lately? This Could Be the Solution!

You haven't had a major life change, your finances are stable, and you’re not staying up all night. So why do you feel so low on energy, easily frustrated, and scattered in your thoughts?


Let’s talk about invisible stress.


We all recognise visible stress. It’s the chaos of a toddler throwing a tantrum at the grocery store or the pressure of delivering a speech in front of a critical audience. But what about the subtle, silent stressors lurking beneath the surface? These are the invisible stressors that can sneak up on us and wreak havoc on our well-being.


When these hidden stressors pile up, you might feel like you just survived a rollercoaster ride, yet you’re left thinking, “What’s wrong with me? Why do I feel like this? Nothing major happened!” In this article, we’ll uncover five sneaky stressors outlined by Precision Nutrition experts that could be chipping away at your health and happiness. Even better, we’ll share strategies for recovering your energy, clarity, and resilience.


Stressor #1: Information Overload

In our tech-driven world, information is abundant. From endless emails and video calls to social media feeds, our brains are bombarded with data every minute of the day. The result? We often feel overwhelmed and mentally fatigued.


The problem isn’t just the sheer volume of information but our inability to filter out what’s irrelevant. Without a focus filter, our attention gets scattered like leaves in the wind, leaving us feeling drained and unfocused.


Signs you’re affected by this stressor:

  • You feel exhausted after scrolling through social media or watching the news.
  • You find it hard to concentrate on your goals because you’re constantly distracted.
  • You struggle to understand how you ended up down an information rabbit hole.
  • The idea of taking a break from screens seems both terrifying and liberating.


How to recover: Establish a focus filter by identifying your core values and priorities. Ask yourself: What truly matters to me? Whether it’s family, fitness, or personal growth, consciously direct your attention toward these areas. Recognise that saying “yes” to your values may require saying “no” to distractions.


Stressor #2: Toxic Positivity

Many of us have been taught to maintain a positive outlook, even in difficult times. But when positivity becomes forced or insincere, it can intensify stress rather than alleviate it. This is what we call toxic positivity, and it can stifle your ability to address real issues.


Signs you’re suffering from this stressor:

  • You avoid discussing difficult emotions like sadness or frustration.
  • You feel guilty for experiencing negative emotions, believing you should be grateful for what you have.
  • You find yourself dismissing others’ struggles with empty platitudes like “Just stay positive!”


How to recover: Acknowledge and embrace your emotions, especially the uncomfortable ones. When you feel something negative, notice it. Allow yourself to experience these feelings without judgement, as they are a normal part of the human experience. Everybody has moods that go up and down. So if you’re in a low mood, you can start getting excited that, soon, you’ll be in a high mood again. There’s no need to be scared of your feelings. They come and go, and they go away much faster if you take them in stride.


Stressor #3: Constant Noise

The background noise of everyday life—lawnmowers, traffic, or even loud conversations—can trigger a stress response in our bodies. While some sounds are merely annoying, others can be overwhelming, especially when we’re trying to focus or unwind.


Signs you’re affected by this stressor:

  • You feel anxious or overwhelmed in loud environments that others find comfortable.
  • You avoid certain places because you anticipate the noise will be too much to handle.


How to recover: Identify ways to minimise noise that triggers your stress. Use noise-cancelling headphones, create quiet zones in your home, or set aside specific times for silence. Consider incorporating “quiet breaks” into your day to recharge.


Stressor #4: Emotional Labour

Many professions require us to manage our emotions and the feelings of others, which can be exhausting. This emotional labour—whether in customer service, healthcare, or even caregiving—can leave you feeling depleted if not properly managed.


Signs you’re suffering from this stressor:

  • You feel drained after long days of dealing with others' emotions.
  • You often put others' needs before your own, neglecting your own feelings.

How to recover: Set clear emotional boundaries. Determine when to engage with others’ feelings and when to prioritise your own well-being. Schedule regular breaks for yourself throughout the day, whether it’s a short walk or a few moments of deep breathing. Seek support when needed from friends, family, or professionals.


Stressor #5: Microaggressions

Microaggressions are subtle, often unintentional remarks or behaviours that communicate bias or negativity. They may seem minor, but these interactions can accumulate over time, leading to significant stress.


Signs you’re affected by this stressor:

  • You often feel uncomfortable or defensive after conversations that seem dismissive.
  • You experience fatigue from constantly navigating these subtle forms of bias.


How to recover: Recognise the impact of microaggressions on your mental health. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who affirm your identity and experiences. Engage in open discussions about these experiences, fostering an environment where they can be addressed and understood.


Are You Ready to Uncover and Address Hidden Stressors in Your Life?

By shining a light on these invisible stressors, we can better understand the silent factors affecting our health and happiness. Remember, it’s essential to acknowledge both visible and invisible stressors to reclaim your energy and resilience. Implementing small, conscious changes can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling life. If you find yourself struggling to identify or tackle these hidden challenges, coaching can provide the guidance and support needed to navigate them effectively, empowering you to reclaim your vitality and thrive.


References:

Lieberman MD, Eisenberger NI, Crockett MJ, Tom SM, Pfeifer JH, Way BM. Putting feelings into words: affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychol Sci. 2007 May;18(5):421–8.

Scott-Dixon, K., & Bowman, A. (2022, April 22). Invisible stressors: Are they sucking the life out of your health?. Precision Nutrition.

Torre JB, Lieberman MD. Putting Feelings Into Words: Affect Labeling as Implicit Emotion Regulation. Emot Rev. 2018 Apr 1;10(2):116–24.

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