Debunking the 21-Day Habit Myth: How Long Does It Really Take to Form Healthy Habits?

We've all heard the age-old advice that it takes just 21 days to form a new habit. But have you ever wondered where this idea originated and whether it's actually true? As it turns out, this popular notion can be traced back to plastic surgeon Maxwell Maltz and his observations in the 1960s. However, it's important to recognise that adjusting to a new self-image after surgery isn't quite the same as adopting and maintaining healthy lifestyle habits. In this article, we'll dive into recent research conducted by behaviour change scientist Katy Milkman to uncover the truth about habit formation.


The Study's Approach:


To unravel the mysteries of habit formation, Katy Milkman and her team embarked on a comprehensive study. They investigated two very different habits: going to the gym and hand-washing by hospital workers. The former is a health-conscious choice, while the latter is a mandatory practice governed by health and safety regulations.


For gym habits, the researchers collaborated with a major gym chain, tracking 30,000 members' gym check-ins over four years. Each swipe of a membership card was meticulously recorded. Simultaneously, around 3,000 healthcare workers were monitored over 100 shifts, using special badges to record their hand-washing behaviours. This massive dataset formed the basis for their analysis.


The Power of Machine Learning:


Rather than manually scrutinising the data, the researchers employed machine learning techniques to uncover patterns and trends. This approach allowed them to explore variables that might have otherwise been overlooked. By letting computers identify which factors most influenced individual behaviours, they minimised the potential for confirmation bias.

Key Findings:


  • Time Required: The most significant revelation from the study was that it took people longer to develop the habit of going to the gym compared to hand-washing. On average, it took just two weeks to establish a hand-washing habit, while forming a gym habit required an average of four to seven months.


  • Predictability Matters: The predictability of one's gym-going habits played a crucial role. Those with regular gym schedules were less swayed by incentives, whereas those with more erratic schedules were more responsive to reward or challenge-based programmes.


  • Time Lag: The longer it had been since an individual last went to the gym, the less likely they were to go on a given day. Consistency in going to the gym on specific days of the week, particularly Mondays and Tuesdays, correlated with maintaining the habit.

Practical Tips for You:


  • Start Small: If you're aiming to build a new habit, remember that taking small steps can make the process more manageable and less intimidating. Begin with achievable changes that you can build upon over time.


  • Incentives Can Be Effective: While you might have heard mixed reviews about challenges and 21-day programmes, don't rule them out entirely. If you find it hard to stick to a new habit on a set schedule, consider trying an incentive-based approach tailored to your preferences. It could give you the extra motivation you need.


  • Overcoming Inertia: Whether you're restarting a neglected habit after a short break or a long hiatus, remember that getting back on track can be challenging. Start with actions that are realistic and attainable for you. Identifying what you're ready, willing, and able to do is an excellent starting point to ease yourself back into the habit-forming process.


In summary, the 21-day habit myth is a thing of the past. Katy Milkman's research shows that habit formation is far from one-size-fits-all. Small changes can take root more quickly than larger ones, and the power of incentives should not be underestimated.


Most importantly, understanding the impact of time and consistency on habit formation can guide clients on their journey toward lasting change. So, whether you're a motivator, or simply someone striving for self-improvement, remember that forming healthy habits is a journey worth taking, one step at a time.


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References:

Maltz M. Psycho-Cybernetics (Updated and Expanded). Souvenir Press; 2022.

Buyalskaya A, Ho H, Milkman KL, Li X, Duckworth AL, Camerer C. What can machine learning teach us about habit formation? Evidence from exercise and hygiene. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. 2023 Apr 17;120(17).

How Long Does it Take to Form a Habit. Precision Nutrition. (n.d.).

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