How Can Surrender Lead to Peace and Strength in Uncertain Times?
Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it. One moment, you're ready to take on a fresh start, and the next, you're faced with challenges that seem impossible to overcome. What do you do when you’re eager to move forward, yet something beyond your control holds you back?
This is a question my friend, Jeryll Anne Viray, faced head-on during a recent health crisis. Her story of grace and resilience serves as a profound reminder of the power of faith, surrender, and finding peace even in the darkest moments.
Lessons in Grace from Jeryll’s Journey
Earlier this year, Jeryll faced a situation that tested her strength and faith like never before. During a medical check-up, doctors discovered a 21 cm ovarian cyst—a diagnosis that left her grappling with months of uncertainty, fear, and unanswered questions.
For many, a health crisis of this magnitude could easily spiral into despair. Yet, Jeryll chose a different path. She embraced the challenge as a journey of growth and spiritual renewal, guided by unwavering faith and the art of surrender.
1. Grace Under Uncertainty
The initial diagnosis brought an overwhelming wave of emotions: fear of the unknown, anxiety over the “what-ifs,” and concern for her family’s future. At first, it was hard for her to accept but she realized that resisting her reality wasn’t going to help her heal either.
Acceptance became her first step toward finding peace. By acknowledging her fear and allowing herself to process her emotions, she laid the foundation for inner strength.
2. The Power of Faith
Faith became Jeryll’s anchor in the storm. Every day, she prayed with clarity and intention, placing her trust in God’s hands.
This deep trust in God mirrors the story in Matthew 14:29-31, where Jesus walked on water and invited Peter to do the same. When Peter saw the wind and waves, he began to sink, but Jesus immediately reached out and said, “You of little faith, why did you doubt?”
Jeryll kept this story close to her heart, using it as a reminder to trust in God’s power even when life felt uncertain.
3. Letting Go of What You Can’t Control
The more you resist your situation, the more you’ll find yourself consumed by overthinking and fear. Jeryll shared that letting go wasn’t easy, but the more she embraced surrender, the calmer and more at peace she became.
She focused on what she could control—her diet, her rest, taking action in her business, and staying present with her loved ones. This shift in perspective allowed her to take life one step at a time, finding peace in the process.
A Practical Guide to Surrender
Jeryll’s journey offers a roadmap for anyone facing life’s storms. Here are the steps she shared for embracing surrender:
The Rewards of Surrender
After months of preparation and prayer, Jeryll underwent surgery, and her tumor was confirmed to be benign—a blessing that reaffirmed her faith and deepened her gratitude. Reflecting on her journey, she shared, “Every day is a gift. Waking up is another chance to appreciate life and improve myself.”
Her experience taught her powerful lessons:
As Jesus said to His disciples, “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid” (Matthew 14:27). These words remind us that no matter how strong the storm, God’s presence is always with us.
Closing Thoughts
Life is full of unexpected twists, but those moments of uncertainty can become opportunities for spiritual growth, inner strength, and deeper connection with God.
Jeryll’s story is a testament to the transformative power of surrender. By letting go of fear and trusting in God’s plan, she found clarity, peace, and the courage to move forward.
Whatever storm you may be facing, remember: surrender is not giving up—it’s placing your trust in something greater. Let go, let God, and discover the peace and strength waiting for you on the other side.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - Meet Our Guest
06:03 - How to Deal with Difficult Moments in Life
14:37 - The Importance of Acceptance and Acknowledgment
20:28 - The Power of Letting Go
29:11 - Free Webinar: Paano Ba Magka-Oras Para sa Gusto Ko? (February 4, 2025)
31:19 - How to Surrender
36:55 - What Happens When You Resist?
42:44 - Does Surrendering Mean Giving Up the Fight?
50:51 - Acknowledging and Facing Your Fears
1:03:45 - You are Stronger than Any Challenges
1:15:46 - Outro
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